Simple guide to NTR, what is Netorare?

Netorare, often abbreviated NTR (寝取られ), is a Japanese slang term which literally translates as “taken away by sleeping with”. Or in other words: Mad as hell. That bitter feeling of betrayal to see you girl being taken away. The central part of NTR is that rage feeling someone who has been cheated (not the cheater). If we talk about the genre, yes, it’s cuckold or infidelity.

This fetish has seen an increasing popularity in recent years and it’s becoming more popular.

What counts as Netorare and why should we care?

NTR It’s all about getting Rekt. Life gave you lemons and unpolitely stuck them up your ass. No lemonade for you here, buddy. Netorare stories are commonly categorized by a woman who cheats the husband. Although a Wife/husband relationship is not a requirement to count as NTR. A mere girlfriend or a school crush counts as NTR.

In Japanese porn movies is a pretty common situation when the woman is coerced or tricked into an unsavory affair. If the woman is violently r*ped, it ends up counting as NTR too… As weird as it sounds. Even more, if she sexually enjoyed the happening. The husband feeling wronged is an essential part of the film.

The mood is often dark and depressing. Most emotional drama situations are regretful, blatant betrayals and humiliating situations that set the mood for the video.

So to sum up, in NTR… =

1. The male gets cheated.
2. The male gets humiliated.
3. Why is it fun?, because the situations are fun, and because of the sheer pleasure of watching such a man getting R3KT gives the watcher a boner. His manhood and dreams destroyed. God, I even hope he cry manly tears.

Is NTR just a Japanese thing?

It’s a mere Cuckolding thing. The main component of NTR, the “rage” or the “fear” of getting cuckolded is about the same as in the west.

Even more considering that “in the west” the cuckold porn genre is incredibly popular too nowadays.

The Japanese guys find NTR truly amusing and the component of humiliation is more “heartfelt” if that’s even possible. Especially for the intricate range of emotions that an NTR situation displays. One thing that truly shocked me while compiling information for this article is the amount of supposedly illegitimate children conceived by a woman in Japan. A survey said that in Japan, like 1%-2% of children are illegitimate, which might not seem a high percentage, but when you think about it, it’s a crazy high number.

The Japanese man is often depicted as weak or puny, and sometimes they don’t show their most masculine side, now that’s true. There are plenty of cliches going on about our dear Japanese dudes, but not this one.

Why are Japanese man so beta?

Now I don’t really like to generalize about 61.77 million Japanese males, which would not very fair. But I guess it’s fair to talk about the general perception foreigners have about Japanese males.

There is a concept in Japan coined: “Herbivore men or grass-eater men“, (草食(系)男子 Sōshoku-kei danshi). The term is used in Japan to describe a man who has lost interest in their “manliness”, and they completely gave up on finding a girlfriend or a wife. And they will clearly identify this man as weak and not very masculine. Even more, many of these men are apparently are not attracted to “independent” or strong women.

All this might explain the eternal Japanese birth declining ratio meme… But that’s another story.

The point is, the Japanese man, don’t have the best of reputation. To sum it up:

• Often perceived as weak.
• Often perceived as not masculine.
• A great societal pressure in Japan.
• Great importance of family, and family values.
• Most man as generally shy and awkward.
• Being a rebel is not perceived as a pro in Japanese society.
• Assertiveness is discouraged in Japan.

Couple all this with the fact that Japanese woman dislikes the guts of NEET man.

Are Japanese woman prone to cheating?

The answer really answer would be: some cheat, some don’t. I don’t really know what Japanese ladies do in their private time. But I can trust my perceptions. Or even better, I will quote a survey published online in the Japanese language here. I did read it this year and it talks about cheating in Japan, plus they pull up some interesting numbers:

• 38 percent of Japanese women said a boyfriend or husband has cheated on them.
• 31 percent of Japanese woman said they’ve cheated on their man.

Worth noting that in Japan, hugging a platonic friend or an opposite male friend to say hello or goodbye is highly rare… And many women would consider holding hands or kissing another man, cheating already.

Finally, the survey asked if the women had ever been caught cheating by their lover. Only six percent said they had got caught.

The woman, when asked why they cheated, 43% of them said because they were attracted to the other man.

Now another important thing to consider is that in Japan the wife is usually left at home alone, or looking after the child, the husband is away working as a salaryman until seriously late. When the hubby gets home from a long day at work and from a long commuting trip at the train he is exhausted, hence no sex Maybe just at weekends.

With such a boring and frustrated life the chances of having a cheating Japanese wife are not slim. There are many tales of guys who been cheating in Japan.

So in conclusion: Yes. Japanese woman does cheat, and more than girls from other countries. All of them? No. Probably even the 31% number from above seems a tad high. But around that.

What happens after the cheating gets discovered?

Most times, break up, but not always.

Assuming the significant other found out: Cheating does not automatically cancel out a marriage or relationship. Most men or women will not act out violently after finding up. They might even accept the situation and try to get on their life just to avoid divorce.

Because In Japan divorce is not that common either.

In the west, this would probably be perceived as a sign of weakness. Where such cheating situations almost certainly guarantee a breakup.

What is the point of NTR movies?

As I said, the point of NTR movies is to enjoying fetish and the fantasy itself. Enjoying the complexity of emotions and the spiciness of the situation. This genre is very popular but I am also aware that many people don’t enjoy it that much, or simply care about it.

I often thought that NTR can only be enjoyed when you are a spectator to the situation. Because if I was to suffer a cuckold in first-person, and I get cheated by the wife in real life I would be too pissed off to enjoy any of it.

Then, If I push my wife to cheat me or I motivate her into swinging, or couple swapping then I guess is not NTR or cuckold anymore, but mere swinging. Another lovely fetish…

If I watch someone else getting cucked then I guess I am just getting entertained by observing the husband getting humiliated and the wife being slutty. And yes, humiliation is a huge fetish.

Somehow same as when we obtain some kind of pleasure by watching someone cumming in the face of a girl, we don’t really do it, but we enjoy someone else doing it. Moreover, there is a strong Taboo component in this fetish that adds flavor to it.

Having a look at DMM NTR catalog:

So I made a quick search in DMM to the NTR tag and it returned 6800 results. The same search in R18 returned 5500 results or so. I will assume that many videos are not tagged or wrongly tagged, so perhaps there are easily more than 10000 JAV videos with NTR as a fetish.

As impossible it is to watch them all I will comment about just a few of them I sampled.

Some common situations in NTR JAV releases:

MIAE-076

Lead actress: Meguri.

So MIAE-076 is both the latest I watched and one I subbed to English. And Meguri is one of the queens of NTR for her naturally attractive wife-material looks.

Plot: Meguri host a party for his husband and coworkers. And the coworker lay a trap with a hidden camera because they believe all girls are cheaters. They force Meguri while on hidden-camera and she ends up feeling some Kimochi.

So she has no other remedy but to admit to her husband that she is a cheat. Then his humiliated and cucked hubby enrages and decides to convert the situation in a Gganbang. For much of his coworker’s delight.

JUX-786

Lead actress: Kazama Yumi.

Plot: JUX-786 plot breaks a little the pattern, but it’s beautiful. A newlywed couple moves to live with the mother-in-law. And she can overhear them having sex, and she can overhear too their frustrations.

The mother in law cannot help her impulses and can’t endure masturbating. The pressure is too big she also tempts the son in law.

She can not hold back the increased temptation, but she tries to endure and not masturbate, but she still hopes to get fucked… Yumi who noticed that her son’s honor held emotions beyond her parents more than himself stimulated his inferiority. However, it comes to a point that Yumi cannot resist anymore and does the forbidden thing.

NGOD-012

Lead actress: Kanno Sayuki

NGOD is a solid series which features many good NTR JAV stuff. For example, this video which belongs to the series “Please Listen To My Cuckold Story”.

Plot: A repairman comes to Kanno home to do some repair work on the bathroom. Talking about  “customer satisfaction”, Kanno-chan gets plenty from the repair dude.

One day the husband returns home early just to find out why her wife Kanno Sayuki was being so happy lately. 🙂

PGD-949

Lead actress: Shino Megumi

Plot: Shino-chan has been married for 2 years. But she attends an old students reunion and meets her ex-boyfriend Mr. sexy she literally loses her mind and her marital fidelity alongside…

I saw this type of plot a lot lately. Ex-students reunions. Co-worker parties. Meet with friends, etc.

OGPP-011

Lead actress: Tsuno Miho

OGPP-011 was a serious eye opener for me and re-sparkled my interest in the NTR genre, awesome situation and acting. And I seriously felt bad and a bit sad for the husband. Or in other words: Triggered!.

Plot: Tsuno Miho is married to a guy who is too worried and stressed about the future and about Japan economy. To the point, he cannot perform well in bed. One day when they are having dinner with the father-in-law the son gets too drunk and passes out.

The father in law is a more practical man and doesn’t worry much about the economy, and decides to bang Tsuno Miho, in a real scumbag move.

EBOD-405

Lead actress: Momose Yurina

Plot: Momose’s father in law Tabuchi is another case of a father in law who touches too much. One of those situations in which the wife initially refuses but the situation escalates until she ends up feeling good about it. Forced into pleasure kind of situation. Behind the husband’s back.

And Momose Yurina, what a babe.

SOME NRT SERIES (By Code series and studio:):

From the top of my head, a non-extensive list:

• JUY (Maddona).
• MEYD (Tameike Goro)
• NTRD, NTR (Takara Eizo)
• NSPS (Nagae Style)
• ADN (Attackers)

And a big etcetera. Many studios touch the NTR fetish at non-exclusive series from time to time. The whole R18 cuck catalog can be found here.

In conclusion

Besides those listed above, there are many more other good NTR JAV. Way more than what I could ever watch or list here. A common recipe for NTR success that I observed includes:

• A pretty actress, slightly on the mature side. Better if married.
• A girl who is not slutty and can prove some initial loyalty (Good girl gone bad case).
• A plot that has a base and unfolds in the first 15 minutes, otherwise it can become really boring really fast.
• Some drama. Doesn’t need to be too complex but needs to be there.
• R*pe and Inc*st are very popular when they get mixed with NTR videos. I believe just because these fetishes are pretty popular by themselves, to begin with.
• And finally and absolutely most important, the husband needs to find out about the betrayal. A grand finale in which the hubby gets humiliated and REKT like the astronomical cuck he is.

As a final note, I include above the video done by Asian Boss in which they discuss cheating. Asian boss, who is another dude who can’t get a boner even his life depended on it. (Admitted by him :D, LOL), but he makes some decent videos. With a lot of interesting points.

For example, None of the interviewees including the females think that prostitution in cheating. Ok then, rock on. 😎